I want to look my best for my husband. Every wife should endeavor to be beautiful and sexy for her husband. Part of that is watching your weight. In my case, I don't have to lose much because my husband likes me as is. But I want to be someone he can show off. I … Continue reading Staying Sexy for My Husband
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Be a Trophy Wife
Every man wants a wife he can show off and be proud of. This is multifaceted. The first element is looks. Keep your hair lustrous and soft. Wear makeup if he likes it, or keep a bare face if he doesn't. Watch your weight. Many women don't want to hear this because it can be … Continue reading Be a Trophy Wife
I Don’t Want a Career. I’m a Woman.
What alternative career paths have you considered or are interested in? I have zero interest in entering the workforce at any time now or in the future. I want to mop my floors. Washing my husband's clothes feels good. Give me some dish soap and a full sink and I'm happy. I want to bake … Continue reading I Don’t Want a Career. I’m a Woman.
My Portable Life
I wrote about this on my Instagram, but I want to write more about it here. I have made a portable life. Scrapbooking, writing, art, reading, etc. can be done anywhere. I have to move, on average, every two years or so. Having things I love that can be done anywhere enables me to have … Continue reading My Portable Life
Seven Benefits of Patriarchy for Women
Patriarchy isn't just for men. Women benefit, too. 1. We are protected. 2. We are provided for. A woman in a traditional "patriarchal" relationship doesn't have to worry about paying the bills. She also gets shopping money each month, an allowance from her husband. 3. I am convinced that with patriarchy, the s*x is better. … Continue reading Seven Benefits of Patriarchy for Women
Cutting a Little Sexiness From My Wardrobe
My husband mentioned to me yesterday that he thinks some of the dresses I wear are daring. Some of them, many in fact, are quite conservative. But I do have some dresses that are very short and low cut. I have cleaned my wardrobe out of clothes like that to please my husband in the … Continue reading Cutting a Little Sexiness From My Wardrobe
Don’t Be Intellectually Lazy
Before I fell in love with being at home, I wanted to be a professor. I like debates and critiques. I adore scientific and philosophical inquiry. Poetry was going to be my focus (for my first grad degree), and I wanted rigorous feedback on my work. Research is my passion. In my senior year of … Continue reading Don’t Be Intellectually Lazy
Sometimes Things Don’t Work Out
I'm writing this from Casco Viejo in Panama. I am doing badly. Leaving the hotel room is a struggle. Twice I have had panic attacks in public. Mental illness is very real. This week my husband has work to do. Our romantic vacation ends tomorrow and we go to a different hotel in another part … Continue reading Sometimes Things Don’t Work Out
Books, Studying, Panama
I have so many new books. I have one in depth book about the octopus. I have another with gorgeous up close photographs of plankton. Additionally, I have a book coming in the Victorian language of flowers. I would consider myself a Victorian housewife more than a 50s housewife, and I am always interested in … Continue reading Books, Studying, Panama
2 Acceptable Reasons For Divorce
The only two acceptable reasons. Infidelity and abuse are the only valid reasons to divorce. There is nothing else. Marriage is an important issue to me because I believe that marriage is the bedrock of the family, and the family is what keeps society together. I have been in a lot of mom groups in … Continue reading 2 Acceptable Reasons For Divorce
Cherished Rainbow 